Ok. Iam here looking for friends first and a woman to fall in love with. criteria? Dont be a gold digger. I am not materialistic. DOES THIS POF IM EVEN WORK? read the following. I am not here to have meaningless banter with 30 different women. If you dont like me then you dont like me, I do not judge people by their past, job or fanancial situation. First off. there is no other feeling worse than being alone. even when your surrounded by people and friends and family. To wake up every morning to noone is a unforgiving isolation. No matter how you perceive my ad, just know that my overall intention is to find a love to call my own. I want someone to be there for me, wants to spend quality time together, walk hand in hand down the street. I absolutely adore public displays of affection and am not afraid to show my feelings and emotions. Just so you know ladies, I prefer relationship with women who are around my age or older, no teens please. I am comfortable with all walks of life. I have been known to rip up a hoedown in the mountains, to hobnobbing with movers and shakers.

1. I am not here for a quick hook up. Sure I like meeting people and talking. Just because I messaged you doesnt mean Im trying to get into your pants. I am recently coming out of a 1 way relationship. I gave and gave and gave and got nothing back. So yes, I will be wary to get into an in depth conversation, unless I feel comfortable with you. If I feel that you are someone who I would like to know more about, I will certainly be the first to say so. If we do have a connection and start seeing each other regularily, you can bet my happy ass will not be coming on here anymore. I take a relationship serious and expect the same.

2. If you take the time to look through a profile, at least respond with a hi. I admit I am guilty of looking and dashing, from my perspective, anything I say, you have probably already heard it. So if I leave you a message, it will be straight to the point. Just know that I am NOT a perv. I appreciate beauty and will comment on it when I see it.

3. If you like what you see, say so. We all love compliments. Don't assume that just because you showed up on my view list, that I am going to message you. If I like what I see I will tell you(respectfully in my own words). If you come back with a nasty or snotty retort I will ignore you. It will show an obvious lack of personality on your part. Most likely I will be laughing at your lack of humor.

4. If I visit your profile and leave no message, its because your pic was way fuzzy and I could barely make out your face. Its hard to see a person when your a mile off in the pic. I also check to see what rea your in. I do not do long distance relationships. Showing sexy poses and cleavage does nothing for me when looking for a connection. Just shows that you like to draw attention to yourself or have a complex.

5. Tell it like it is. Dont sugarcoat or say what you think ppl want to hear. Me? I love women! Can't get enough of them, but I AM a 1 woman person. I have more female then male friends. why? Because all of them know that I am not one to constantly try to get into their pants. They are friends and I treat them that way. They are also the 1st ones to tell you that I do not cheat or fool around. If you are looking for a relationship, make sure your not already in one. Not that diffcult.

6. I am not rich! I live comfortably and have the ability to spoil myself at times. I am not materialistic. I am too young to be a sugar daddy, so look somewhere else. I do not care what you do for a living. as long as it is legal. I do not care what kind of car you drive, chances are, its better than mine. I do not care about your past, as long as it stays there. I dont care if you smoke. I used too. Drink? me too! drugs? Never!

7. AND if I do message you. Do not automatically assume I am trying to hook up with you. I am not that hard up!

8. If you would like for me to reply to any of your responses, please select one of the following options: Please note: most times I will pick my own option.

A. Scallywag Response: A detailed message stating what I really think of you

B. Ron Jeremy response: A detailed message describing my visual image of what you and I should do to past time.

C. George Bush response: I will BS you anyway I can to flatter you.

D. Mime Response: Huh?wha?

E. Minority Response: Que? No comprende englishe puta!

ALL ABOUT ME!!

I run my own biz. why, I dont know.

I have a 7 yr old son who lives with his mommy in chicago. And yes, I talk to him as much as possible.

I don't do drugs. Love to party at times, dancing and such.

I talk in my sleep.

I love to cook.

I also love to check out new restuarants

I like meeting new people.

I can be sarcastic

I can be aggressive at certain moments, if you know what I mean.

I absolutely hate headgames!

I mean what I say and say what I mean

I love with all my heart

I am very handy around the house

I love doing family outings

I love meeting people

I love waking up in the morning and seeing my partner




NOTE: Don't be afraid to chat with me. I have a sense of humor and I love meeting ppl, whether just as friends or more. If I feel that I have made a connection with you, we will get to know one another. SHould that friendship blossom into a romance, You will not see me on here much at all.   Send me a message!

Profession: self employed contractor
Interests:  dining, cooking, movies, outdoors, dancing